Once we have learned our lessons, we do not need to repeat those lesson again. In my life, I had one lesson come up over and over again involving my father, as I could not forgive him for the hurt he caused me so I could not move forward in my romantic life. I struggled with this over and over again. Each relationship in my life was frought with problems with my partners. There was always some major hurdle I could not overcome in these relationships.
Now looking back, I realized that I did not have a healthy and happy romantic life or truly let anyone into my heart, because the pain and hurt caused by my father occupied that space in my heart. Because of this, I could not allow anyone else into my heart as that heart space was already occupied. This pain and hurt is what prevents many of us from truly allowing others into our hearts and lives and the resulting distrust, anger, and resentment closes our hearts to others.
After I healed the pain and hurt from my father that I held in my heart, my life began to feel very differently as I began to see my world very differently. I even began to attract my desires into my life, and men who are kind and honest, and I admire and respect began to enter my life. The Universal Law of Attraction states that we attract what we are.
It was only after I healed the pain and hurt within my heart that has allowed me to begin attracting into my life others who also are healed, who can engage in a relationship, and who can share their joy, peace, and unconditional love with me. May you find love through healing. ~ Brooke (Copyright 2013 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)

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