PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

Yesterday, I was talking with my friend about the recent events involving giving up my emotional attachments to a man who is emotionally unavailable as he is emotionally and romantically involved with a married woman, but continued contacts with me and treated me poorly.  As my friend is aware of all the events involving this man, she said that I have a lot of drama in my life.  At first my ego felt offended, but then I realized that she is unaware of what I have been trying to accomplish through my emotional healing work.

I explained that this type of situation has occurred several times earlier in my life.  In each of those past circumstances, I ran away of out of fear or anger, or the man left me.  Unfortunately, during each of the prior situations, I did not do the necessary emotional healing work to leave the situation based on good self esteem, power, and will.  When we fail to do the emotional healing work, these situations will simply reoccur over and over again in our lives until we have learned our life lesson.

In my life, these situations seem to manifest when my life is in crisis or difficulty.  So, I may marry a man who is loving, kind, and honest, but when that relationship is in conflict or has difficulties, I will revert to seeking out someone who mistreats me or reminds me of my father as I am emotionally hard wired to react in this way.

When we do our emotional healing work, we begin to rewire ourselves emotionally to a different reaction and response to our life’s difficulties. Please see the tab, “Emotional Healing Practice,” on my Blog Homepage for this technique.

When we finally heal our emotional wounds caused by our childhood or life experiences, we change the course of our lives to a healthier way of living resulting in less pain and suffering for ourselves, as we no longer seek unavailable parental figures for love that will never happen.  May you find healing in your life, Brooke (Copyright 2013 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)