When we want a new life for ourselves, it takes our intention, focus, and perseverance. This is what I am beginning to realize about life in general. I have had a life that has not worked well for myself, as I blamed others for my failed outcomes, and played the victim repeatedly. Because of this pattern, I became the very victim that I tried not to become. It is truly ironic how this works.
To break out of this pattern of victimhood, we cannot identified with being a victim. In my life now, I am no longer the victim as I no longer perceive others constantly trying to hurt me, or need to have others protect me from this fear for I am able to protect myself now. This is the beginning of changing these patterns in our lives.
Because of this new life I am trying to create and manifest for myself, my intention must be clear for myself, and my focus must guide me always in this positive way. When I fall back to loving other conditionally periodically, I must remind myself that what I am doing is gratis, and I cannot expect anything in return, as that is attachment and dependency since we cannot wait for others to give us our happiness. This must come from within ourselves.
As I move forward emotionally and spiritually, I persevere every day relentlessly seeking this new life, and I feel it is clearly within my grasp. May you find your new life for yourself, Brooke (Copyright 2013 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)

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