PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

As I have personally experienced abuse in my life, I want to share the pattern involving seduction by the abuser.  This is part of the abuse that keep victims stuck in this pattern sometimes for many years.  The pattern goes something like this.  The abuser will seduce the victims by showering us with attention,  including lots of emails, texts, poetry, words of love, flowers, gifts, etc.

Most victims suffer from low self esteem, and many times have experienced prior abuse maybe as children. After this period of attention and adoration, then there will be incidents of violence that may involved sexual, physical, or emotional abuse. The victims will try to physically get away, but soon the abuser will return to give attention, adoration, and love repeating the cycle all over again.

Most abusers exhibit a pattern where they shower attention and adoration for several weeks then the violence will begin.  There is then a period of reconciliation where the attention and adoration will repeat again.  The seduction techniques of an abuser is finely crafted as it is perfected to a fine art.  There are words of love, and showering of attention and adoration, and this is what keeps the victim stuck in this abuse.

The way out of this pattern is simple to break the pattern.  Do not accept the abuser back in your life, and get support and protection from your family, friends, and a therapist or counselor.  When you break the pattern, the abuser may get angry or agitated as the old pattern no longer works.  There also are shelters available to victims of abuse in most communities, so seek them out.

Victims must also heal the emotional wound that send out wounded energy to abusers.  This energy cannot be hidden from abusers as abusers can sense and pick out the victim in a crowded room filled with hundreds of people.  Try my “Emotional Release Practice,” found on this tab on my Blogsite Homepage to heal your wounded energy.  Healing love, Brooke (Copyright 2014 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)