In the course of the evolution of my life, I have learned many invaluable lessons and insights into life in general. What I have learned is that most relationships or people we encounter are karmic relationships. If you question whether a relationship is karmic or not, it probably is. Under the very small percentage chance that we meet our soulmates, and maybe our twin flames, which is even a smaller percentage chance, we cannot be with them until we have healed our emotional wounds, released our egos, learned self and unconditional love, and found happiness and peace within ourselves.
Our egos play an important role in fooling ourselves into believing that we have found our soulmates or twin flames. The ego has its desires, need for control, and need to be right. By virtue of this ego, you will believe that every relationship is “the one.” In actuality, you are still learning life lessons, healing your emotional wounds, and learning to love yourself. I have seen lovers believing that they are soulmates or twin flames when they engage in extramarital affairs with each other, lying and deceiving their loved ones, and even engage in emotional, sexual, and physical abuse with each other. Our ego is that powerful within our psyche to fool us into believing these people are our soulmates or twin flames!
The purpose of karmic relationships is to help us learn our life lessons and in the evolution of our lives. We know that karmic relationships are over when we have learned our life lessons, no longer feel attracted to them, and realize that we deserve better through self love. It is then that we have evolved beyond them. This is hard for the ego to accept, which is why it is difficult to truly see our reality and our truth until we have released our ego. I share my technique called, “Observing Ego Practice,” to learn how to release your ego. Remember, before you have released your ego, you will continue to be fooled by it.
What I believe is when we meet our soulmates or twin flames, it will be in an organic way and in person anywhere in the world as the Universe intended for this meeting. It will not be through artificial means such as the Internet or other artificial manner, such as online dating. When you meet them, you will not need to twist, bend, pretend, and change yourself to get along with them. You need not find small similarities, such as compatible astrological signs, liking the same colors, or sharing minor interests. It will be obvious and clear, as you have the same life goals, values, interests, hobbies, music, religious and political views, and just about anything else. Most importantly both of you will not be married, engaged or dating another. It will be very obvious to both of you.
In the meantime, accept and appreciate the karmic relationships that come and go in your life as a step in the evolution of your life. It serves a very important purpose to prepare you for your spiritual wholeness and your readiness to meet your soulmate or twin flame. Let them go when you have evolved past these karmic relationships. This letting go is part of your evolution, and you will feel an incredible propulsion forward in the evolution of your life when you do. Experience this powerful evolution within yourself. (Copyright 2016 Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved)