Once we learn to let go, we are free. I learned this the hard way, when I had to let go of someone I loved. With letting go of the pain of my past, I let him go too. To this day, I still become emotional, but with joy not with pain or anger. Once I learned to let go from this experience, I have learned to let go of expectations and trying to control my life.
This is what I do now. I try my very hardest to do the best that I can to move my life forward then I just let go, and allow what is meant for me to come to me. It is a difficult process to let go of what we cannot control. This mean when we cannot control outcomes, we don’t attempt to do so.
This can be accomplished with anything really. For example, you meet someone who you really like. Instead putting all sorts of expectations and trying to control the outcome of that relationship, you just allow it to evolve naturally without trying to force it or make something happen. This can be done with applying for jobs, or anything else. I do need to emphasize that it is important that any endeavors are done through your very best efforts with honesty, sincerity, and genuine interest.
Once you have done your best, let it go into the Universe. What is meant for us will happen at the right time. Have faith that you will never miss out on what is intended for you. Now, I just watch and wait patiently as I know what is meant for me will come at the right time for the right reason. (Copyright 2016 Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved)
Pathway to Joy and Healing 
It’s really difficult to let go of the control and expectations attached with every single situation and even people. But we need to work on it if we want to stop suffering…thank you for this post 🙂
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It is always a work in progress for all of us. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. Sending love and light!
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