Before my recent experience, I never truly believed the above meme. I have outgrown others before, but now it’s so dramatic that I know almost instantly when others do not fit into my current life. The negativity I observe in others no longer conforms to my current existence. This negativity include drama, chaos, judgment, discord, conflict, resentment, and turmoil. I no longer tolerate these negative behaviors from others.
For instance in the past, affairs, violations of trust, triangulation, lying, deceit, selfishness, and abuse were tolerated in my life. I allowed others to drag me into their drama with others and where I enabled this drama. Others would bring their chaos into my life which was self created, and I allowed this. People in my life would circulate rumors and gossip, and cause strife, discord, and turmoil.
In my current life, the first time I hear someone complaining about their ex-spouse, ex-partner, their family members, etc. I run the opposite way from them. I no longer allow triangulation which is to tell a third-party about how you dislike a second-party. This is how affairs occur as one would tell a thirt-party lover how horrible their spouse is. It is purely the need to create drama and turmoil.
On many levels, I do not believe people including myself were even aware of these destructive behaviors. These are learned negative behaviors caused by our emotional wounds. It is only after I stopped these behaviors in my life that I realized that negative people need this like breathing. It becomes automatic and without awareness.
This drama fuels the negative energy needed to exists in their current negative energetic states that is full of hurt, pain, and suffering. As we continue these thoughts, behaviors, and actions, the hurt, pain, and suffering persist. Around and around this negative energy is regenerated and continues. Until we have awareness of these behaviors, they will simply continue until we take affirmative action to change them.(Copyright 2016 Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved)
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