Have you ever wondered why you attract unsuitable partners and drama-filled friends into your life? How many times have you said to yourself, why did I marry this person or date that person? Why are my friends constantly in conflicts and involved in drama in their lives? The answer is very simple. It’s called chemistry, or we know it as energetic frequency in the spiritual community.
Everyone is fully aware of this phenomenom called chemistry. It is why we are attracted to certain people and not others. We like certain people and dislike other people. Most of the time, we don’t really know exactly why this is only upon a brief meeting with another.
The explanation is quite simple, but many have difficulties accepting this. We attract what we are, that is we attract those at the same vibrational frequency as us. This causes the chemistry between two people. If we vibrate at a different frequency than another, then we feel a dissonance or discord within our energy fields, and the result is repulsion or dislike of another. It is simple quantum physics.
Over the course of human evolution, our egos have developed a protective mechanism of sorts to protect us from seeing the true realities about ourselves. Our egos feed us information about ourselves that do not accurately reflect who we really are, also known as self perception. For example, sex offenders and murders continue to offend because their egos justify their decisions, actions and habituated behaviors to allow them to continue, sometimes with more frequency and severity.
In extreme cases, it is called psychosis, delusion, or mental disorder. However, everyone exhibits this phenomenon to some degree. So how do we truly see who we really are? We observe those who we attract into our lives, and who they are as our egos are able to see others very accurately and precisely. Observe who your partners and friends are.
In the course of my life, I was attracted, for most of my current life and previous lifetimes, to men who are sexual predators, philanders, cheaters, liars, and some were violent. I attracted women who are mentally ill and emotional unstable. This told me quite a lot about myself who suffered from sexual and physical abuse from childhood by my father, and grew up with a mentally ill and undiagnosed mother.
I began to observe that there was something seriously wrong in my life after I left home and attended college. In college, I began psychotherapy to help me figure out what was wrong in my life. Through my recovery, I tried to overcome my attraction to abusive, predatory, and sometimes violent men. In an attempt to overcome my problems, I married a very kind, honest, and devoted man, but I found him boring, unexciting, and had no chemistry with him.
This marriage did not survive because I again became attracted to abusive, predatory, and even violent men. Even my intentional attempt to change my circumstances, I could not overcome my energetic frequency, and thus, my attraction to these men who are not good for me. As time went on, it became clear to me that I must change my own energetic frequency to attract healthier, kinder, and more loving people into my life.
Thus, I began my spiritual journey when my Kundalini energy rose in March of 2011, and I relentlessly committed my efforts to heal my sexual and emotional injuries I sustained as a child and later as an adult. I understood that I must change who I am to attract who I want into my life. (Copyright 2016 Awakening Journey with All Rights Reserved)