PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

It is the end of 2017, and a wonderful opportunity to reflect on the past year. It has been nearly one year since my relationship with my twin flame, although we have known each other for over five years.

The unusual relationship of twin flames is that we mirror our twin’s emotional wounds. It is the same wound but from two different perspectives. Case in point, I am working through issues of jealousy and trust. My childhood was filled with distrust as my father had many extramarital affairs as well as sexually abusing me.  My twin flame is working on lack of self-esteem that has caused him to seek approval and attention from other people.

Here lies the double edged sword where my emotional wound is also his emotional wound like two sides of the same coin.  After much contemplation, I have come to realize that I must heal my own  emotional wounds so I no longer suffer with this distrust and jealousy in my life.  He also must heal his emotional wounds so that his self worth is not reliant on the approvals and attentions of others.

Our relationship has a mirroring effect so that when we find fault with the other, it is critically important to see our side of the same coin. Every relationship we have with others is a mirror of ourselves. May you reflect on your year of 2017. (Copyright 2017  Awakenimg Journey  with all rights reserved)