Category: denial

• Accepting the End

  When I saw this above meme, I realize it was speaking to me.  For the past five years, I have been letting go of everything I have ever known or understood about my own life.  It is a gradual process of releasing my ego’s identity and how I see myself.  It is the Dark Night…

  W. Brooke Chang

  December 24, 2016

  abuse, ascension, awakening, Dark Night of the Soul, denial, enlightenment, Kundalini, Kundalini awakening, Kundalini energy, spirituality, Transformation

• Breaking the Bonds of Codependency

  This weekend is a great exercise in letting go, and breaking free from codependency. Codependency is the oppositve of love as it is our need to fill the void by another because we cannot love ourselves. Do not confused codependency with love.  If you have not learned to love yourself first, your relationships are codependencies.…

  W. Brooke Chang

  November 13, 2016

  addiction, ascension, awakening, denial, Dependency, emotional healing, Empowerment, Free Will, psychology, relationship, spiritual journey, spiritual practice, spirituality, Transformation

• Reflecting on Past Lessons

  In the last couple of months, I have been reflecting on my journey for the past five years.  It is coming full circle, I reflected on the men I earlier attracted who were similar to my father.  One person was so similar to my father as his son also does not speak to him and…

  W. Brooke Chang

  August 8, 2016

  abuse, ascension, awakening, denial, ego, emotional pain, Free Will, karma, Law of Attraction, mental illness, psychology, relationship, spiritual bypass, spiritual journey, spirituality, Transformation, Universal Law of Karma

• Living in the Shadow of Ego

    Awakening is awareness of what is happening to your present existence.  Many are not aware of what is happening to them in their current life situation.  If we have not released our egos, we live in the small microscopic world of jealousy, greed, envy, resentment, rage, pain, suffering, and chaos.  This is the world…

  W. Brooke Chang

  August 1, 2016

  ascension, awakening, denial, ego, Ego death, enlightenment, Free Will, Kundalini, Kundalini awakening, psychology, self help, spiritual journey, spiritual practice, spirituality, Transformation

• The Pain is Within Us

  As I spend time alone, I am hearing messages from my higher self.  She says that the pain is within, and not out there.  When I feel pain from watching terrorist attacks against innocent human beings, it has triggered something painful with me.  This pain is fear within me and emotional wounds of my past.…

  W. Brooke Chang

  July 16, 2016

  abuse, ascension, awakening, death, denial, ego, emotional pain, enlightenment, Kundalini, Kundalini awakening, psychology, spiritual practice, spirituality, Transformation, trauma

• What Underlies Our Lies

  As you can see from my earlier posts, I have been contemplating why people lie.  There are several reasons people lie.  We lie because we feel shame, fear of being disliked or disapproved, and fear punishment or the consequences.  Even when we believe we tell white lies so as not to hurt others, it is…

  W. Brooke Chang

  June 24, 2016

  ascension, awakening, denial, ego, enlightenment, psychology, self esteem, self help, spiritual practice, spirituality, spirtual journey, Transformation

• What We Mirror

  Most of us are unable to see ourselves clearly because of our egos, but we are able to see clearly flaws and problems within others.  This is the result of repression and suppression of pain within our emotional landscapes caused by our egos.  Ego feels so threatened by our emotional pain so it represses it…

  W. Brooke Chang

  October 21, 2014

  ascension, attachment, awakening, denial, Dependency, ego, emotional healing, psychology, relationship, self help, spiritual journey, spirituality, Transformation, universal laws

• Signs Along the Way

  As I have been on my spiritual path for the last three and a half years, I have learned the signs along the way as a guide in finding my way.  The most important thing I have learned about the signs I see along the way is that if there is resistance than you are…

  W. Brooke Chang

  October 14, 2014

  ascension, attachment, awakening, denial, Dependency, emotional healing, Empowerment, Free Will, relationship, spiritual consciousness, spiritual journey, spiritual practice, spirituality, Transformation

• The Cycle of Pain

  In my earlier post, I shared with you that I have been observing those around me who are stuck in the cycle of pain.  What this cycle is – while I have personally experienced this for most of my life – involves denial of our emotional pain.  Through this denial, we suppress or repress this…

  W. Brooke Chang

  October 10, 2014

  addiction, awakening, denial, Dependency, ego, emotional healing, Empowerment, mental illness, psychology, spiritual consciousness, spiritual journey, spirituality

• The Dangers of Denial

  Sometimes when we deny what is truly happening to us emotionally, mentally, or physically, we say and believe that only we are affected by this, so what’s the big deal?  Well, the truth is that those we love in our lives also are negatively affected by this, and our loved ones end up leaving us…

  W. Brooke Chang

  October 9, 2014

  addiction, awakening, denial, Dependency, ego, emotional healing, mental illness, psychology, relationship, self help, spiritual consciousness, spiritual journey, spirituality