PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

I recently had an interesting conversation with a friend over dinner while discussion her romantic life. She currently is involved with a married man, and knows that this is very hurtful and painful to her life because he is unwilling or unable to leave his marriage for her.  He professes to be in love with her and claims that she is his soulmate, but when asked why he won’t leave his marriage for someone who his soulmate? He gives excuses that do not appear rational or even plausible.  I asked if she has had other relationships with married men, and she admitted that this is her third.

I explained to her that this has become a pattern in her life, and that she may want to explore why this is. She laments that she did not say or do anything to attract these men.  I then explained that she doesn’t need to say or do anything, it is her energy that she sends out to others that attract married men.

Our emotional landscape is a collection of our emotional experiences through this lifetime and even many earlier lifetimes. This collection of emotional experiences may involve trauma, abuse, hurt or pain from our past experiences.  These emotional experiences are stored as negative emotions in our emotional landscape. These emotions exist as energy, and become our resonant vibrational energy that is our fundamental frequency within our energy field.  We then vibrate at the vibrational frequency in our energy fields that is sent out to others every minute of everyday.

If we had negative experiences with our parents who were emotionally or physically unavailable or we experienced hurt and pain from an earlier romantic relationship, we will store these negative emotions in our emotional landscape as fractures or emotional wounds that translate into certain vibrational frequency being sent out to others from our energy field. We know this as attraction or chemistry.

When this happens to us, the only way to overcome being attracted to married men is to heal that part of our emotional landscape so that we will send a different vibrational frequency to attract different men.  Although we can try to resist this attraction or chemistry, it will be difficult because we will feel that we are in love with them.  Until we have healed the fractures and emotional wounds that created the negative emotions in our emotional landscape resulting in this vibrational frequency within us, we will continue to attract the same.

If you are interested in healing your emotional landscape, please click HERE for my post on Emotional Release Practice.  Blessings and light,  Brooke (Copyright 2013 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)