PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

This has been a week of learning lessons about myself, and nonjudgment is one of the most difficult principles for me.  When a friend pointed this out about one of my posts, I took it to heart.   What she says essentially is a soul who knows her value does not waste time on wrongdoers, and that their actions are not for us to judge.  That this judgment creates a karmic cycle with those individuals that continues this cycle of judgment of one another. She says that we must find this truth within ourselves first then give love and forgive to those who harmed us to break out of this cycle.

 This is very valid when it comes to me, and in fact, I already know this, but just needed to hear it again.   As I have been hurt repeatedly in my life as a child, then as an adult while I continued in many dysfunctional relationships that I am working very hard to break out of.  Judging others has become a habit for me, and only my awareness of what I am doing will help break this bad habit.  This is my truth.

 This realization, although unpleasant to face, is true and accurate about me.  I must forgive those who trespassed against me, and let go of the pain before I can heal my painbody.  Not too long ago, I was engaged in a relationship dynamic that essentially replayed that with my parents while I was being sexually abused by my father.  This relationship dynamic created new and fresh painbody within me that I must begin to heal now. 

 The only way to healing is through forgiveness and compassion of those who harmed me.  A big hug and thanks to my loving friend for this reminder.  Sending healing love and light to all of you, Brooke (Copyright 2013 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)