Forgiving is not forgetting. It’s letting go of the hurt.
This has been a difficult period of creating trust with those we have lost trust. Through forgiveness of others, we begin to build trust again. My personal circumstance involves my supervisor who for the past year has created conflicts and difficulties for my job. Through ego release work, I have refused to respond to her attempts to trigger my anger. During our interactions, I remained calm, professional, and non-confrontational merely stating facts when she becomes difficult. Our relationship now is strained at best.
Recently, I have decided to change my perspective with her to a more positive one. Instead of assuming the worst in her and dreading every interaction, I have decided to give her another chance to look at each interaction as an opportunity to build trust. The fear of being hurt is the basis of not trusting others, and this fear creates even more distrust resulting in more hurt. This fear is created by our egos based on our past emotional histories. As I have let go of many of my fears through ego release work, I am no longer fearful of being terminated from my job or being punished by my supervisor.
I move forward to try to build trust with her, because it will make my work easier and my life less stressful. I have decided to begin this process today, in the hopes that my relationship with her will improve because I offer the olive branch of peace to her, so that I can experience this peace within my own life. With blessings, Brooke (Copyright 2013 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)

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