PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

During my emotional healing work, I have contemplated how we can feel spiritually connect to others, but still have personal boundaries, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.  As a person who suffered from childhood abuse, personal boundaries are always in my awareness and very important for a healthy life for me.

Both my parents live in fear of loss, failure, and being unworthy, and as a result, they crossed emotional and physical boundaries as means of controlling these fears.  The irony in all this is that what they fear most came true as this is how fear works. The negative energy of fear will simply attract a negative result. The fear of loss will manifest the exact loss we fear.  It isn’t saying we are afraid that manifests this loss, but the feelings of fear as feeling is energy, and we can’t fake feelings.

Therefore, there is no way around fear except to release ego’s grasp on our lives.  So, how do we feel connected to others, but still have healthy personal boundaries with them?  Once we release ego, the fears generated by ego will no longer cause us to cross unhealthy boundaries, emotionally, physically or spiritually. We will then honor the free will of others more and more as our need to control others and our surroundings begin to change and dissipate.

Personal boundary is really an issue of free will. When we honor other’s personal boundaries, we honor their free will to choose these boundaries, and we truly honor their souls.  For this is the only way to have genuinely healthy relationships with others, to respect and honor others, and the key to long lasting relationships through free will.  May you honor those souls in your life, Brooke (Copyright 2014 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)

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