PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

Last night I had an intense conversation with a friend about life lessons and moving beyond them. As she struggles to understand what she must learn and how she must learn hers, we acknowledged that it is important part of understanding exactly what we must learn in order to move beyond our lessons, as many believe that learning their lesson is simply to avoid certain people, places, and situation.

I will admit that this may be part of it, but there is much more.  We must feel no draw or attraction, whether positive or negative towards them.  In other words, they, the people, places or situations, become neutral and no longer affect us so they are no longer part of our emotional landscape, as we have let them go.  This draw is generated within us, and has little to do with how the other feels about us.

I admitted to her that I was brought here to where I live now to heal my emotional past, and to let go of my parents.  There are certain things that I must do while I am here that is to let them go along with the feelings they generate within my emotional landscape.  What I am to learn here is to stop trying to save my parents out of guilt, loyalty, and dependency as my ego wants me to do. As these are the emotions that they elicit within my emotional landscape.  Here lies my true lesson that I must learn, as I came to this realization when I awoke this morning.

I cannot save others since each of us must save ourselves, and my lesson is to understand that it is not my responsibility or purpose to save them.  This truth about my life will allow me to move beyond this lesson for my life, and what a big lesson it is!  With this understanding and belief, I give myself permission to move beyond this life lesson onto my next one.  May you move past your life lessons. (Copyright 2014 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)