PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

After giving up my codependency relationships recently, I have come to some insights about becoming free of attachments.  I can confidently say that nearly all of our relationships are based in attachment in that they fulfill a need in our life.  Relationships based on unconditional love is not based in need that is if we must leave our loved ones or they leave us, we can continue to be happy with our current life.  We are able to truly achieve unconditional love in relationships once we are able to give ourselves love, and become emotionally and physically self sufficient.

The most difficult hurdle in becoming free of attachments is leaving our relationships based in attachment. Most people are able to give themselves love in their current life, but do not become emotionally or physically independent. Because in order to become completely self sufficient and independent, we must leave those relationships…