PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

I want to discuss with you about the dangers involved in counseling from Internet counselors or spiritual guides. This is the type of counseling by those on the Internet who give counseling or psychological therapy without any training or license either for free or for a fee. This is not guidance or advice from a blog, but someone who will talk with you by telephone or email to provide “counseling” or serve as a spiritual guide. There are those in the spiritual community who want to be gurus, so they call themselves “counselors” or guides.

Please know that dealing with mental, psychological, or emotional issues is like playing with fire; it can burn your house down. Many who are experiencing emotional and mental issues are the most vulnerable and may be the easiest to manipulate as they are emotionally wounded. I have observed those who have chosen this kind of “counseling” where these counselors may take advantage of transference that is when the clients transfer their feelings about their parents onto their counselors usually manifesting in an intense sexual attraction. These feelings are not real! This is when the counselor must set appropriate boundaries with their clients, but instead they engage in sexual or romantic relationships with their clients. Because they are giving this service for free, they may feel entitled to cross these boundaries. As they are not licensed to practice, they cannot be disciplined by a licensing board or lose their license as this conduct and any emotional entanglements with a client are strictly prohibited. Continuing a relationship after discontinuing treatment also is prohibited and discouraged.  This misconduct is considered sexual abuse, and may result in criminal charges and civil law suits against the counselor.

These so called “counselors” who are Kundalini active have the ability to manipulate energy such as emotions and thoughts. They can convince their clients to engage in sexual or romantic relationships with them, that they have extraordinary powers to cure others, and they may refuse to let their clients leave. The simple truth is that they are using their Kundalini abilities for self gain, for control, and to manipulate their clients. The only way to leave these situations is to disengage from them completely. Those with Kundalini abilities need to talk with you by telephone or interact with you directly to manipulate your emotions and thoughts. Do not return their calls, emails, or texts!

All of this may seem very cynical, but I have observed those who have been duped in this way and unable to leave these “counselors” for many years. These client’s emotional and mental health suffer as they now must heal the betrayal, lies, and manipulations of their counselors who they trusted and believed to help them recover emotionally. This will result in emotional damage to yourself and cause you to become stuck and unable to move forward in your emotional and mental recovery.

Before engaging in any kind of therapy or counseling, please check to see if this person is licensed and trained. You can verify their licenses and credentials with the National Board of Certified Counselors for those licensed in the United States at this LINK. For alcohol or drug abuse counselors, please also check your State’s association of drug and alcohol abuse counselors.  Our emotional and mental health and recovery is our own responsibility, and we are responsible for making healthy, sound, and good choices for ourselves.

As for myself, I have decided to do my own emotional healing work after many years of counseling with professional licensed therapists. Blessings of healing light. (Copyright 2014 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)