Breaking Dependency Ties

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This period of my emotional healing and spiritual growth have shown great strides.  My spiritual journey has proven to be one that is so critical for my soul life.  One by one, I am breaking the ties of emotional dependency in my life.  In the past, I needed others to take care of me emotionally, I needed to be loved by others, and I evolved my life to those around me.

For example, when I was married, I moved to be with my then husband, left my job, and left the life I knew.  After our divorce, we recently broke free from one another to move forward on our own.  I knew that my marriage was not right for me or my ex-husband as I began my spiritual journey when my Kundalini energy rose. When I left my marriage, I felt guilty about leaving so I continued to keep in touch to ease the separation.  However, keeping these ties simply kept the emotional dependency going.

I have come to realize several things about myself as a survivor of childhood abuse and trauma that I am strong enough, resilient enough, and love myself enough to be alone.  I am no longer a little girl emotionally, but a strong and independent woman. I have grown up as I no longer need mommy and daddy to tell me what to do, how to feel, and what I need.

I can make those decisions for myself now as I am letting go of the ghosts of my past to move onto a bright and beautiful future.  Sending my love, Brooke (Copyright 2014 Kundalini  Spirit with All Rights Reserved)

Photo source: Dreamy Scape by Garry.

 

 

2 responses to “Breaking Dependency Ties”

    1. Thank you for the kind reblog and sharing my post with others. Blessings of love, Brooke

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