PATHWAY TO JOY AND HEALING

My most recent work to accept the losses in my life has allowed me to take back power in my life. I have suffered losses in my life that I had difficulty accepting. The two major ones are the loss of love from my father and mother.  With these losses of love in my life, I suffered terribly because I did not receive healthy love from them, since they were unable to return such love. I continued to hope somehow that they would change, and I would eventually then receive this love from them. This is both unrealistic and unlikely. Our hopes and dreams of receiving this love are what causes us to suffer. We continue to yearn and wish for this love that will simply never materialize.

When we have failed to received healthy love from our parents, we continue to seek this everywhere we go, hoping for a different result with others. When we are able to come to this realization, and recognize that we may never receive this love from our father or mother, then we free ourselves from the bondage of suffering.  When we come to this awareness, then we begin to give this healthy love to ourselves that we needed so desperately.

Because we can only change ourselves, and cannot change others, it is only through self love that we are able to take back power in our lives. That power is knowing that this self love can never be taken away from us. It will remain with our souls into eternity. Blessings from my heart, Brooke (Copyright 2013 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)