Category: Free Will
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Breaking the Bonds of Codependency
This weekend is a great exercise in letting go, and breaking free from codependency. Codependency is the oppositve of love as it is our need to fill the void by another because we cannot love ourselves. Do not confused codependency with love. If you have not learned to love yourself first, your relationships are codependencies.…
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The Dark Night of the Soul of America
As many of you have heard the United States elected Donald Trump to be our next President. Some Americans are in deep shock, mourning, and grief. The reason is President-elect Trump used hate speech, negative rhetoric, and sexist statements and behaviors in his campaign. Many Americans are deeply disturbed and distressed by the election results.…
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The Secret to Transformation
For most of my life, I had been living a life I don’t want. I suffered from childhood abuse, had failed marriages, and attracted drama-filled, self-destructive, and sometimes, violenct lovers and friends, and worked at unfilling jobs – essentially living the life of a victim. I have come to realize that each of us has…
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Survivor: No Longer a Victim
During the course of my recent recovery and evolution, I have come to realize an important distinction between victim and survivor. The key distinction is that a victim recognizes the harm or traumatizing experience and does little beyond recognizing it. A survivor goes beyond recognition through action to protective onself. I have met many people…
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Facing My Dark Night
During the Dark Night of the Soul, many issues of betrayal and trust have come up for me. In order to engage in healthy relationships with others, I must overcome these fears of betrayal and trust as well as change my own decisions and behaviors. My first experience with betrayal and trust began with my…
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Self Hatred
In my introspection about what I experienced in the past few years is the concept of self hatred or self loathing. This was the part of me who despised and loathed myself. As many of my readers know, I was sexually, physically, and emotionally abused as a child from the age of eight when I…
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Uncovering True Reality
There is a time during our spiritual journeys that we uncover our true reality we were unable to see before our awakening. This reality is finally finding out we are flawed, and filled with emotional pain. This does not make us unvaluable, but merely that it is the important acknowledgment of our problems to begin…
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Deeper Parts of Letting Go
As I experience my journey forward that is an ascending spiral, I learn more and more about myself, and my journey exposes to me the deeper parts of me. On my journey, I experience deeper and deeper aspects of letting go. With each layer of letting go, I feel deeper feelings I did not observe…
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Only When We Are Ready
It has been a long journey for many lifetimes for me, and never being ready. However, now I am finaly ready to truly help others with their healing. It has to do with non-reaction to others’ behaviors, actions, and comments about us. When we heal ourselves, we no longer operate in our smaller selves. We…
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