Category: abuse
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Giving Up the Past
Do not be mistaken; when we emotionally heal ourselves, we necessarily must give up the past including people and unhealthy dynamics. Many may be under the impression that everything can remain the same, but I really am getting better. This is simply not the case from my personal experience. For example, if we are recovering…
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The Miracles of Healing
Last night, I saw this meme and my jaw dropped. In the past five years as I heal my emotional wounds, this has happened to me repeatedly, and this meme summarizes it perfectly. This is what I have learned about myslef during these past five years. We attract certain people who are not good…
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Dark Energy
It is true that where there is light, there also is darkness. I have come to the conclusion that spiritual people, including Kundalini active individuals are like all people. Some are good and some are dark. I came to this conclusion when I encountered my first Kundalini active person who was full of darkness. I…
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Reflecting on Past Lessons
In the last couple of months, I have been reflecting on my journey for the past five years. It is coming full circle, I reflected on the men I earlier attracted who were similar to my father. One person was so similar to my father as his son also does not speak to him and…
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Slaying Dragons
I have been laying dragons ever since I was child I believe due to my childhood abuse. The dragon represents my father who came into my room in the night. I was terrified to go to sleep as a child and even into adulthood. He was the Jekyll and Hyde character who was a doting…
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Calm in the Storm
There are people in this world who create chaos and confusion. The truth is that they are not even aware of it. They are unreliable and undependable, are constantly in crisis that is self created, expect everyone to accommodate their lives, engage in unhealthy and destructive behaviors, intentionally seduce married people, instigate conflicts with others,…
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The Mind of A Predator
Recently, I saw a movie called, “Spotlight.” It is the story about the Boston Globe Newspaper’s exposure of the massive and systematic coverup by the Catholic Church of 249 priests molesting over 1000 children in Boston, Massachusetts. The Catholic Churches throughout the world to include the Pope and the Vatican knew, covered up, and allowed…
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How Trauma and Suffering Change Us
Yesterday, I went rocking climbing and deep water soloing with a group of twenty-something. My time with these friends who have not experienced as many of life’s sufferings/traumas including divorce, death, and illness are very different from my older friends who are experiencing divorce (sometimes for the second time), death of their family members, and…
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The Pain is Within Us
As I spend time alone, I am hearing messages from my higher self. She says that the pain is within, and not out there. When I feel pain from watching terrorist attacks against innocent human beings, it has triggered something painful with me. This pain is fear within me and emotional wounds of my past.…
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Truth for Healing
I currently am taking a vacation, and have an opportunity to reflect upon the above meme that I saw recently, “Truth is the basis of all healing.” With the recent violent shooting in Orlando, I think it is appropriate to speak about my own healing work. Healing begins within each of us, and this healing…
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