Category: self help
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Building Something New
For four years, I was unable to let go of a really awful and destructive relationship. It had every possible destructive aspects to it. There was lying, cheating, abuse, addiction, betrayal, deception, infidelity, among others. What bound me to this man was that I too had all of these destructicve aspects to me, so like…
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Facing My Dark Night
During the Dark Night of the Soul, many issues of betrayal and trust have come up for me. In order to engage in healthy relationships with others, I must overcome these fears of betrayal and trust as well as change my own decisions and behaviors. My first experience with betrayal and trust began with my…
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Self Hatred
In my introspection about what I experienced in the past few years is the concept of self hatred or self loathing. This was the part of me who despised and loathed myself. As many of my readers know, I was sexually, physically, and emotionally abused as a child from the age of eight when I…
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Uncovering True Reality
There is a time during our spiritual journeys that we uncover our true reality we were unable to see before our awakening. This reality is finally finding out we are flawed, and filled with emotional pain. This does not make us unvaluable, but merely that it is the important acknowledgment of our problems to begin…
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Deeper Parts of Letting Go
As I experience my journey forward that is an ascending spiral, I learn more and more about myself, and my journey exposes to me the deeper parts of me. On my journey, I experience deeper and deeper aspects of letting go. With each layer of letting go, I feel deeper feelings I did not observe…
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Mirror, Mirror
Have you ever wondered why you attract unsuitable partners and drama-filled friends into your life? How many times have you said to yourself, why did I marry this person or date that person? Why are my friends constantly in conflicts and involved in drama in their lives? The answer is very simple. It’s called chemistry,…
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No Longer Escaping
For a long time, I have been escaping from myself and my life. I ran from place to place and relationship to relationship, while hoping to find peace, happiness, and contentment. What I did find was myself at the end of each of these attempts. It was amazing that I could not understand why I…
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Family Karma
I have been contemplating the concept of family karma recently. My family has a history of incest/sexual violations, mental illness, and violence. This is true of both sides of my family, my father’s and mother’s family. Because they are the same, my parents attracted each other. As a result, this family karma is deeply entrenched…
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Moving Past the Drama
Until my recent transformation, I was unaware that I created, invited, or associated with people who love to bring drama into my life. When we are emotionally injured and wounded, we feel like a victim. In this capacity, we continue to feel wronged, taken advantage of, and worthless. Playing the victim is living a horrible…
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Only When We Are Ready
It has been a long journey for many lifetimes for me, and never being ready. However, now I am finaly ready to truly help others with their healing. It has to do with non-reaction to others’ behaviors, actions, and comments about us. When we heal ourselves, we no longer operate in our smaller selves. We…
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