Category: trauma
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Life’s Big Tests
Today, as I was having lunch with a girlfriend, we shared the most interesting coincidences. She shared with me that during the last week, she heard from or saw her last three ex’s, and one lives in Colorado. I also heard from or saw three of my ex’s in the past month. Two of my…
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Counseling Others While Unhealed
I want to share with my readers some pitfalls and problems when we attempt to help others through counseling them while we are still emotionally unhealed. These issues I am about to discuss are important considerations when we counsel others on emotional and mental issues while we are still unhealed. Many in the spiritual community…
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The Mind of A Predator
Recently, I saw a movie called, “Spotlight.” It is the story about the Boston Globe Newspaper’s exposure of the massive and systematic coverup by the Catholic Church of 249 priests molesting over 1000 children in Boston, Massachusetts. The Catholic Churches throughout the world to include the Pope and the Vatican knew, covered up, and allowed…
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Attraction to Perpetrators
I have witnessed several people being attracted to perpetrators of sexual and physical assaults. Why would you feel attracted to people who perpetrate a crime against you or others? Logically, we should feel repelled by them, but unfortunately, this is not the case. Perpetrators of sexual and physical assaults are themselves wounded and emotionally injured.…
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How Trauma and Suffering Change Us
Yesterday, I went rocking climbing and deep water soloing with a group of twenty-something. My time with these friends who have not experienced as many of life’s sufferings/traumas including divorce, death, and illness are very different from my older friends who are experiencing divorce (sometimes for the second time), death of their family members, and…
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The Pain is Within Us
As I spend time alone, I am hearing messages from my higher self. She says that the pain is within, and not out there. When I feel pain from watching terrorist attacks against innocent human beings, it has triggered something painful with me. This pain is fear within me and emotional wounds of my past.…
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Empowering the Victim
Throughout my life, many have harmed me including my parents, partners, and coworkers. I gave off victim energy for a long time due to many lifetimes of unresolved trauma. These traumatic experiences left emotional wounded energy within my energy field, and this wounded energy can be felt by others. As a result, I fell prey…
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Sensing and Observing Energy
This weekend, several friends and I rented a lakeside condo to spend the July 4th weekend. This is a perfect situation for me to observe those around me in my present life for an extended period of time. As an empath, I can feel others’ emotions, moods, and thoughts, and as an objective observer, I…
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Letting Go of Toxic People through Forgiveness
Spirituality does not mean to be positive all the time. To be awakened is to be mindful and aware of your life and your current existence. Although I have forgiven many people who hurt and wounded me, it does not mean that they are accepted back into my life. These people were toxic, mentally or…
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