Category: attachment
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Loving without Negative Energy Cords
I am learning to love without negative attachments with others. Our emotional landscapes shaped by our childhood and past experiences determine the negative energy cords that we create in our adult lives. If we have experienced abuse or trauma, we have “learned” to make these negative attachments with others through these negative energy cords. Many…
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Beyond Letting Go
As I have recently let go of many things from my present life that are not meant for me as it was intended to help me resolve my childhood past, I wanted to share what I have experienced after letting go of this major part of my past. Firstly, letting go is the acceptance of…
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Reflections of Change
For those of us working on emotional healing and ascension through our awakened energy, we feel an incredible fast speed in which our growth and healing takes place. It is as if our lives are moving at the speed of light, and growth and changes occur within months rather than years. In the past three…
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Letting Go of What is Not Meant for Us
On my journey, the most difficult thing I have found is to gracefully let go of things not meant for me. I have faltered many times on my journey, and this is intended to teach me to let go of what is not meant for me. I have hung onto my wounded past refusing to…
Brooke’s Blog
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What is Triangulation?
The situation involving triangulation is one that most people have experienced, but this is particularly true for those of us who have suffered childhood abuse or trauma. “In family therapy, the term triangulation is most closely associated with the work of Murray Bowen. Bowen theorized that a two-person emotional system is unstable in that it forms itself…
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Letting Go is a Conscious Choice
My recent emotional healing and spiritual work is learning that letting go of our past trauma, and emotional wounds is a conscious choice. It is an intention that we make, then our minds and hearts must be willing to take the next step to let go. Image yourself carrying around very heavy luggage while walking…
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The Love for Rejection
As adults who suffered from childhood abuse whether emotional, physical, or sexual, we develop patterns of love for rejection and hurt. During formative years of our lives as children, we develop our bonds of love with our parents, and learn patterns of behavior around this love. Once that pattern is established within our emotional landscape,…
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Acceptance of Myself and Others
I currently am working on acceptance of myself and others. When we meet others in our lives, we want them to conform to our beliefs and our way of thinking. We complain and lament why others are the way they are, and we wish them to be more like us. I have come to realize…
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Gurus strugle, too
Originally posted on askseektry: In a world with more and more spiritual teachers, gurus and coaches springing up on a daily basis, as well as tons of resources on personal and spiritual development available not only in bookstores but also online, things may become somewhat confusing. On the one hand it’s great that we are…
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Freedom from Dependency
As I enter my new phase of emotional healing and spiritual growth, I am experiencing a new state of being. It is one that I have had glimpse of but never for long periods of time in the past. This feeling is one where I no longer feel this void in my life. In the…
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