Category: spirtual journey
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Attraction to Perpetrators
I have witnessed several people being attracted to perpetrators of sexual and physical assaults. Why would you feel attracted to people who perpetrate a crime against you or others? Logically, we should feel repelled by them, but unfortunately, this is not the case. Perpetrators of sexual and physical assaults are themselves wounded and emotionally injured.…
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When Anger turns to Compassion
You know you have reached a different place in your emotional and spiritual growth and transformation when what earlier caused anger, now creates compassion. In my job at my college where I work, I help students, faculty, and staff who have been sexually assaulted, physically assualted in their interpersonal relationships, stalked, discriminated against, and harassed. I…
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What Underlies Our Lies
As you can see from my earlier posts, I have been contemplating why people lie. There are several reasons people lie. We lie because we feel shame, fear of being disliked or disapproved, and fear punishment or the consequences. Even when we believe we tell white lies so as not to hurt others, it is…
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Ego at Work
Awareness of ego is so tricky. It’s like trying to see our self image without a mirror or reflection. The ego projects a certain image of ourselves in our minds that is not realistically accurate. This unrealistic image may be that we are more attractive, smarter, more spiritual, therefore, we are better than others,…
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Guided by the Higher Self
After four years of intensive emotional healing work, I am still attraction people who are less than acceptable into my life, although it is improving. So this morning, I am exploring why I am still not attracting what I want. The initial analysis is that I am still operating in fear and running away from…
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At the Right Time . . .
Once we learn to let go, we are free. I learned this the hard way, when I had to let go of someone I loved. With letting go of the pain of my past, I let him go too. To this day, I still become emotional, but with joy not with pain or anger. Once…
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Learning Self Worth
When we begin to look within, we realize the whole world is within us. The way we respond to our world and how we feel are never external. I believe that I am about to take a giant leap forward in my soul evolution. It is my soul realizing its value, what I bring to…
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6 Lessons I learned about Self Love
During the course of my spiritual journey, I learned so much about myself and the lessons I learned are invaluable about how to love myself. These are the six lessons I learned and I hope you find them helpful. 1. In order to grow emotionally, we must learn to soothe and comfort ourselves. This involves…
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Finding Mr. or Ms. Right
For a long time, I wondered what I was doing wrong that I never found the right partner in my life. Upon reflection, I realized that it was my own confusion about this within myself. I thought all the Mr. Wrongs were Mr. Rights. When we are confused internally on what is right or best…
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Valentine’s Day Lessons
Since today is Valentine’s Day it is appropriate to talk about love. Our first and last love should be self love. Self love serves as a foundation for all our relationships. Personally in the past year, I have learned some tough lessons about self love through my failed relationship, but it is a lesson worth…
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